When you have been in a relationship for a long time, it can be difficult to keep the relationship healthy. Its fair to say no one likes having a difficult or irrational conversation with love ones or other people, a lot of us go out of our way to avoid confrontation. sometimes major life events such as the breakdown of your marriage or relationship, your business crumbling, job loss, illness. Decisions can be challenging and mind blowing. We all have to make them small, big or life changing, the size doesn't really matter. Decisions are hard to make.
For the person agonizing over a difficult life issue, everyday decisions can be a monumental responsibility. The decision to do and to be is often the most difficult part of their daily living. Their perspective is blurred by lack of confidence and inability to see beyond that which presents itself as a problem. They become stuck in an emotional and mental rut.
Feeling nothing will get better, hopelessness sets in giving way to confusion and despair. A powerful combination together they set up overtaking the mind and emotions; resulting in irrational thinking that leads to devastating conclusions.
Steps to improve your communication
Be honest, maintain an open mind, recognise that this is an important conversation. Each person views the other realistically.
People don't always meet up to our expectations, no one perfect, we all make mistakes, more importantly learning and taking responsibility personal growth. That means holding onto our dreams and aspirations whilst also being able to share these with one another.
Taking responsibility for maintain an open mind, when we come from a place of ego state. This means each person works toward self-love, self-protection, self-care, self-containment and self-identification.
Each person focus on a solution to problems, not whose fault it is, no expectation, no over thinking things, no putting our own spin on things (as this will lead to stress, anxiety and depression.
absolutely right, in order to form a balance and a unit we need both men and women my point is our perception and interpretation plays a fundamental part in how we act towards each other, it’s also very important that we are communicating effectively to each other and choosing the right time to do so, a person mental state is important, listening and understands each other is crucial. In order for us to succeed in business, relationships everything we do we have to see the bigger picture and be open to new ideas, opinions etc.
Hypnotherapy for effective communication
Hypnotherapy has been shown to be an effective aid in the process for communication. We use CTB with the integration of hypnotherapy, which is more effective than using CBT alone. The self-awareness that CBT offers renders it a highly successful way to modify behaviour.
Hypnosis relaxes and calms individuals, allowing one’s subconscious mind to accept positive suggestions for their well-being. This experience helps you reflect in a calm and positive way and cope with the days, weeks, and months ahead. finding inner peace within yourself and others, as well as aiding deep relaxation.
Clinical hypnosis increases the effectiveness of hypnotherapy, which enables unique, specific and positive changes to take place.