In just a few weeks time Halloween will once again be upon us and kids all over the country will be dressing up as ghouls and ghosts, skeletons and clowns etc.
For most children – little ones as well as teenagers, Halloween is fun time – they can go out trick or treating, collecting sweets as they go and generally having a great time but for some children (and adults of course) it can be a miserable and scary event.
Some people suffer from “Coulrophobia”
The word Coulrophobia means a persistent and irrational fear of clowns. (It possibly originates from Greek Kolon meaning stilt or stilt-walkers which are often used by clowns). This fear is so strong that the child or teen can’t go anywhere near a clown, or even look at pictures of them! So what is it about clowns that some of us detest? Some psychologists say that the fear is probably since we cannot read genuine emotions and feelings on a clown’s face. When you take away our ability to read someone’s expression, it’s quite worrying because we don’t know what they’re feeling are they happy, are they sad -angry or what?
We don’t know what to expect, or how to react. Clowns are also often manic, and a bit unpredictable which can generate fear and anxiety particularly in children.
Fear of clowns usually starts at a very young age, as young as four or five, usually what happens is, a child is invited to a birthday party, and when they get there, with no preparation from parents, they see a weird freaky looking person wearing a wig, and big shoes, and a crazy outfit, and a big nose, talking weirdly, doing stupid things.
Some kids love it of course but some get scared, they have been thrown into a situation with no explanation and expected to think it’s funny! Those children who are already prone to anxiety will have an even stronger reaction. Fear of clowns is one of the most common phobias in children.
Of course, recently with the introduction of scary films about clowns murdering people etc, this hasn’t helped the reputation of clowns has it? In some places, especially in the US, there have been reports of gruesome attacks by people dressed as clowns, so it’s no wonder the poor kids are becoming even more fearful.
Out of interest, are clowns something that frightens you as an adult?
What can parents do to help their fearful child?
However you decide to talk about clowns, anxiety and fear, and the hysteria that surrounds us today, it’s much better for the child if you’re the one who talks to them about it. You want to be able to get the facts across and set the emotional tone and pass on any information in a calm way
Invite your child to tell you anything they may have heard about clowns, and how they feel. Give them as much opportunity to ask questions. Be prepared to answer questions. You want to avoid encouraging any frightening ideas they may already have!
Be realistic. Clowns aren’t real and they’re not dangerous. A clown is usually someone simply dressed up in a costume to do his job and entertaining children and families.
Children are likely to focus on whether something frightening or bad could happen to them. So it’s important to reassure your child that it’s highly unlikely anyone will try to scare or hurt them.
If you have very young children say 2-4-year-olds it would be a good idea to buy and prepare them with some books with pictures of clowns. You can read them a story of a clown and them some pictures, if and when they do go to a kid’s birthday party and a clown turns up – they will already know what it is and so the fear hopefully won’t be there!